1. What did you do in 2015 that you’d never done before?
tried hot tea with cream, got caught in a termite cloud, had a tooth “crowned,” developed stopped-up ears during a cold
2. Did you keep your new years’ resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
For 2015, I said that I didn’t “want my focus – my world – to be my problems.” Sadly, I let them be my world way too often. Also, I wanted to dwell on the truth that “God’s plans for your life far exceed the circumstances of your day;” I made it ’til maybe March then moved on to other truths as the year progressed.
For 2016, in light of my lesson learned (see #39) I will try to bloom where planted. Hopefully in ways that don’t feel like settling and giving up my dreams.
3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
4. Did anyone close to you die?
No – thankfully!
5. Where did you travel?
only to local cities that I’ve visited before
6. What would you like to have in 2016 that you lacked in 2015?
My biggest dream is still to own a home. If I can get closer to that in 2016, that would be awesome.
7. What date or event from 2015 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
learning that my personal data was stolen in one of the umpteen recent computer/network security breaches
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
getting some medical checks that I’ve been putting off
9. What was your biggest failure?
continuing to take setbacks too hard
10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
I did indeed, and at the same time! In mid-November, I told my dentist about my slight pain in chewing, and he found a crack in a molar. Two weeks later I went to get a temporary crown, and the following week I developed the worst cold/sinus/crud (plague?) that I’ve had in years. Four weeks since it started as I write this, and it’s much improved but it still lingers.
11. What was the best thing you bought?
A shopping basket. I frequent Aldi grocery store, where they don’t give bags, plus the Walmarts in this area never have baskets available.
12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
My mother’s and my sister’s. We have our rough moments, but we always hang in there. I’m ashamed to say it took someone else giving me a glimpse of the way it could be to make me appreciate what I’ve got.
Runner-up: The electrical contractor at work who told me, “You look nice today.” No one ever tells me that, certainly not attractive, buff guys: Mister, you made my year!
13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
My boss’s. To say the least, he often shows a lack of respect.
14. Where did most of your money go?
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
my time away from work (see #13)
16. What song will always remind you of 2015?
“Colder Weather” by the Zac Brown Band. When it looked as if getting a house was going to happen, the “can’t wait” lines in the song made me positively giddy. When that dream crashed, I was back in the “winter season” where I’ve been for quite a while… “stuck in colder weather” as the song says.
17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
Happier or sadder? sadder
Older or wiser? older
Thinner or fatter? about the same
Richer or poorer? about the same
18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
had to fight the same battles, namely having to repeatedly call contractors, repairmen, and others – for both work and home – to ask when they will do what they’ve repeatedly said they will
20. Did your heart break?
Yes, when I tried to achieve my dream of owning a home only to find it painfully out of reach.
21. How did you spend Christmas?
My mom, sister and I opened our gifts around nine-thirty, after I set up our low-frills video camera. I took pictures of our unwrapped gifts, and we cleaned up. We had a light, early lunch and headed over to spend the afternoon with my cousin and his family. I drove back – and there, for that matter – in the pouring rain. (Hello, tropically wet and warm Christmas!) Mom and I finished the day watching Sleepless in Seattle.
22. How will you spend New Year’s Eve?
I’ll be holding down the fort at work along with the 2 or 3 other people who are not on vacation. Later at home, the fam and I will probably watch DVDs, and then ring the new year in as we typically do: sleeping. (At least, we’ll attempt to sleep, because the neighbors usually go overboard with fireworks.)
23. What was your favorite TV program?
I still don’t watch any current programs, opting instead for DVDs. This year, I expanded my collection to include three “classics” that I’d never seen:
The Rockford Files, Hart to Hart, and Felicity.
24. What were your greatest food discoveries?
25. What was the best book you read?
IIRC, this year I only read Christian periodicals; most of my reading time was spent on the computer, usually working out an inspiration I’m having for a certain website project.
26. What was your greatest musical discovery?
The local jazz radio station, Clint Black’s greatest hits CD (5 bucks at Big Lots!), and several great songs from the free offerings at Amazon.com, including “Not Coming By” by Emma Lee
27. What did you want and get?
I’m closing in on a decent way to wear my hair. The mileage varies at this point, but there is a thread of consistency, so I’m encouraged.
28. What did you want and not get?
My own home. I attempted to go forward with this long-time dream by consulting with a builder and a bank; it seemed as if it was going to happen, but it didn’t. I was heartbroken for quite a while, but I’ve come to accept that this simply wasn’t the right time.
29. What was your favorite film?
Films Seen This Year and Really Liked: Avengers: Age of Ultron and Mission Impossible 5
30. What did you do on your birthday?
Took the day off of work – my gift to myself. (Seriously.) Checked Facebook and thanked the well-wishers. Watched a few videos on-line. Made lunch. Enjoyed the delicious chocolate cobbler that my mother made. Shopped a little and took some pictures for a project I was working on. Moved my comfy desk chair so that I can watch TV in it.
31. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
If certain people hadn’t seemed so determined to hone in on the worst in me. (News flash, “certain people,” if you look for the worst – in anything – you *will* find it… as will I. The challenge for us is to work past that and find common ground.)
32. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2015?
Inspired by my recent advances in styling my hair, I’ve been pairing my jeans with nicer tops for work. Maybe a slightly better outfit will boost my okay hair to slightly-better-than-okay…?
33. What kept you sane?
Faith. I admit, I continue to struggle to live it out. But as Peter said to Jesus, “Where else can we go?” So, I press on. And I continue to find that the struggle is worth it!
34. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
The closest would be, while watching The Rockford Files, I study Jim Rockford and drool, “Sakes alive, a MAN!”
35. What political issue stirred you the most?
As I heard it said a few weeks ago, “Football playoffs *and* an election year? It’s almost enough to make you quit Facebook.”
36. Who did you miss?
my former boss
37. Who was the best new person you met?
Sateria, the cleaning lady at work, who is so personable and a hard worker
My cousin’s neighbor also stands out because of her exceptional conversational skills. She contributed to the discussions without monopolizing them and – what really impressed me – recognized when others were being left out and tried to include them.
38. What changed the most in your life this year?
My previous boss retired in January, and we moved to a new office in February.
39. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2015.
“The comparison game is a losing proposition. God has something for you, but you’re never going to find it in someone else’s backyard.” (heard on the Carlos and Joy radio program, WAY-FM) It’s becoming clear to me that I also won’t find it in my fantasies, or in the way I think things should be.
40. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year:
“Your world’s not fallin’ apart: it’s fallin’ into place.” “Just Be Held” by Casting Crowns